Yalla!

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Arabic for "let's go!"


Mom snapped this photo before we left Denver. Red-eye to Dulles, twelve-hour layover (gross), Heathrow, six-hour layover, AMMAN.




We can't believe it's finally here! WE ARE GOING TO THE MIDDLE EAST. Google a map of Jordan. Take a look at our friendly neighbors: Saudi Arabia, West Bank, Israel, Syria, Iraq.


Shall I bake them some cookies???


Change of Plans

20110822

Brock's not going to law school.

About a year ago, Brock felt that law was the right thing for him to do. It really does open up so many doors professionally. I'd always told him that his going to grad school was pretty much a non-negotiable for me (grad degrees are the new bachelor's degrees), so he was vacillating between law school and getting an MBA. The more we thought about it, the more we saw a JD as giving you all the opportunities that an MBA does and then some. Seemed like a grand idea. So we sunk $900 into a baller LSAT prep course, and Brock studied tenaciously. At least an hour per day on top of an insane work and school schedule (500-level math classes? Are you kidding me?), 3+ hours on Saturday, for nine months. I've never seen anything like it. In the weeks leading up to the June LSAT, he was consistently scoring in the mid/high 170s. (A perfect score is 180.)

For practice, Brock took every LSAT test distributed in the past ten years (the week before he took the actual test, he literally ran out of practice tests to take). Coming from a guy who can tell a killer LSAT when he sees one, my heart broke when Brock told me that the LSAT he was given on test day was the hardest he'd ever taken. He ended up scoring 163, which is decent, but for Brock it was devastating. (To put things in perspective: A bad practice test for him in April/May was a 173.)

This completely threw us for a loop. For a while, I was even a little mad at God because I felt like he'd left Brock high and dry. Whatever happened to the whole idea of "You do the absolute best you can, and God will be there for you in your hour of need?" I felt like Brock had done more than his share, only to be abandoned. Even though this rattled me a little, I took comfort in knowing that we weren't the only ones to have ever felt like this (Matthew 27:46; D&C 122:5-8).

In retrospect, I am so grateful for that 163.

If Brock had scored a 178 or whatever, he'd be off on his way to an Ivy League law school without a second thought. But a 163 gave us pause. It made us think. Is this really what Brock wants? Is this really the path, we, as a couple, want to take? And the answer was no.

It made zero sense for us to sink $100,000+ worth of student loans into something Brock wasn't crazy about. He doesn't want to be a lawyer. That's not where his soul is. He and I are free spirits, and being beholden to that kind of debt would prevent us from living our best life. In essence, it wouldn't give us the option of not being wealthy. (We would be and we would have to be in order to pay down loans.)

But what if we didn't want to be?

After reconsidering our life and family goals, here is how things broke down.

1. We want to live and work with passion and creativity.
a) Brock loves surfing, teaching, writing, and--most of all--people.
b) I love nature, languages, humanities, adventure, and writing. Obviously, I love politics--but I'm perfectly fine with that being a continual hobby and interest rather than a profession.

2. We want to live simply.
a) We don't want ourselves, nor our children, to have lives cluttered with "stuff" or endless activities (soccerdancepianosingingkaratescouts) that distract from family.

3. We want to raise grateful, happy children.
a) We want kids who don't feel entitled to the newest gadgets or name-brand clothes. We want them to find joy and happiness in family and relationships, not possessions or entertainment.

4. We want to make a creative living that helps us foster relationships with others.
a) We love talking. We love laughing. We love thinking. But most of all, we love doing these things with people. Relationships with friends/family are our greatest source of joy. It goes without saying that law is, generally, a negative profession that isn't conducive to positive relationships (nor to creativity).

Wealth is a sufficient, but not necessary, condition to these goals. Call us crazy, but here's the new plan:

1. Use Brock's baller math degree to get a job in Chicago's financial sector.
2. Spend a couple years working and saving up cash.
3. Move to Costa Rica.
4. Start a business in the tourism industry. (We'll tell you later!)
5. Pura vida.

We may live there for three years, we may live there for twenty. Who knows? All we know is that we want to live purposefully. A small home, a small community, a quiet life, an adventurous life, a full life. We see Costa Rica as a straight shot to helping us achieve these goals.

Along with having killer surf. Bonus.


Life's A Beach

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I'm a Colorado girl through and through, so my spirit needs mountains.
But the more I visit Huntington Beach, the more enamored I become with the ocean.

Belated

20110820

A whole week without a blog post?! For shaaaaaame! Fear not. I fully plan on catching you up on these past couple weeks. Okay, let's be honest. These detailed day-by-day posts aren't really for you as much as they are for me. I know you don't care. But I do and I want to document these things. Because I suck at journaling. Are you annoyed with this yet?????
Let us start with something long overdue--a detailing of our last week in DC.
Monday 8/1: House and Senate approved a debt ceiling plan! YAAAAAAYYYY
Tuesday 8/2: Went to the Museum of Natural History after work with Brock. They had some cool exhibits, but the whole museum was definitely geared toward kids. There was an awesome exhibit on nature photography, and we saw the Hope Diamond! Can you believe that this is only a fraction of its original size?!

Later that evening we had a final game night with the Deckers. It was so fun having a summer to spend with them in DC and we're already missing them!
Wednesday 8/3: Brock and I headed to Lincoln Park after work--I wanted to see the Emancipation Monument there. It was a pretty little park north of Eastern Market. We sat for a while and watched a pack of dogs play with each other. It made us miss our own pup back home!
Afterward, we met up with our old friend, Melissa, in Crystal City for wings. We all worked together at Tucanos years ago. She was the baddest bartender around who always got us our drinks quick and kept the water pitchers full! :) We spent a good couple hours talking, laughing, and catching up. Melissa reminds me a lot of myself . . . only she's way more badass. I'd tell you why, but I'd have to kill you. (Melissa, if you're reading this, that last line was for you.)
Thursday 8/4: My last day of work! I sure will miss that office. Everybody there was so great! Jason, Justin, Mike, KA, Alisia, Fred, Troy, Jonny, Tucker, Militant Smith, Travis: I love you all. I think it's pretty rare for a person to work with eleven other people and not dislike a single one of them to any degree. From our West Wing re-enactments, to paper-tearing competitions, to well--everything--1032 Longworth HOB was Legit City.
The office ordered in pizza for lunch as a final goodbye, and forced me to talk about my internship experience. Which was easy to do, because it rocked. Even though I came away from it all hating DC and with a distaste for government work, I honestly loved my internship because of the people. Later that afternoon, Tucker took me and the other interns onto the House floor! So freaking sweet. Did you know all the wooden chairs are actually reinforced with bulletproof metal? And beneath each seat is a safety kit to use in case of a biological attack.
That evening, Brock and I finally got around to visiting the Washington, D.C. temple! Or, as the non-Mormons like to call it: Oz.
Friday 8/5: I ran myself ragged with last-minute museums! I went through the three underground Smithsonian museums on the Mall (they're all connected to each other--a great way to escape the heat!): the Freer and Sackler Galleries, and the Museum of African Art. The Freer and Sackler Galleries had art from all over Asia--even some Iranian and early Islamic pieces! I loved this one:


My favorite of the three underground museums was the African Museum. I remember thinking "Art from the Congo/Mali/Botswana/etc? These people are literally trying to survive. Who has time for art in that environment?!" But they do. And it was beautiful--such a testament to me that art is an integral dimension of the human experience.
After finishing the underground museums I walked around the beautiful Haupt Gardens for a minute, and then headed into the Hirshhorn Museum (which is full of modern art). I consider myself to be pretty "artistically open-minded", and I actually love modern art more so than I'd imagine your average person does, but the Hirshhorn Museum was really weird. A few cool pieces here and there, but most of the time I found myself thinking "Um . . . this is stupid."
Later that night, Brock and I went out to a restaurant we've been wanting to try for a while. Our reservation wasn't until 9:30, so we decided to spend the first part of the evening kayaking.
Afterward, we made one last trek to Sprinkles to complete our DC cupcake saga. We were sad to see it end! (As you can tell by the following emo picture):
The restaurant we were going to was in Georgetown. It's one of the best Italian restaurants in the country--Filomena. As we were waiting to be seated, we struck up a conversation with a woman standing near the dessert display case. Her name was Joanna, and she turned out to be the owner! What a coincidence. Our waiter told us that she is rarely at the restaurant herself, but today happened to be her birthday.
Filomena is incredible from the minute you walk in the door and see women hand-rolling pasta in an adjacent room. It's an underground restaurant that is decorated in true Renaissance style--pure extravagance with romantic lighting, soft music, and thousands of fresh flowers. The service was absolutely incredible and my mind is still boggled at how the waiters kept their tuxes impeccably clean despite working in a cyclone of red sauce, olive oil, and balsamic vinegar.
We ordered bruschetta to begin with, and I'm pretty sure Filomena's tomatoes come from heaven. Our waiter told us that one of the secrets to their amazing red sauce is using old, squishy tomatoes. "The tomatoes that you would probably throw out because they're so mushy? Yeah, those are the ones we use because they pack the most incredible flavor in sauces."
As for the main course? The menu describes it best. (Pardon the haphazard capitalizations--why do restaurants do that!?)
Brock: Penne Con Salsicce. When Bono ate this pasta dish here, he wanted seconds!
Penne Pasta tossed with roasted & ground Italian Sweet Sausage, sautéed Mushrooms, Onions, Herbs and Chianti Wine in a Abruzzi Country Style hearty Tomato Sauce with sautéed Link Sausage Pieces.
Me: Tortellini di Michele. Brisket of Beef Braised slowly for many hours with Wine and Vegetables then stuffed into Housemade flower shaped pasta in a light sauce of Pine Nuts, Sage, Crimini Mushrooms, Brown Butter and a touch of Veal Stock and a touch of Cream.
That's right . . . tortellini stuffed with beef brisket.
The best part of dinner, however, was the conversation we struck up with the two people next to us--a father and daughter visiting from Dublin, Ireland. The daughter, Yseult (such a beautiful, traditional Irish name), was in town presenting research at a conference. She had her PhD in psychology and was one of the most poised, kind, articulate women I've ever met. Not to mention gorgeous. I love meeting women like her. She personified the word "pleasant." Yseult's dad, Paul, looked like a rockstar (in reality, he's a mathematician who works for an Irish investment bank). He had short grey hair, cool jewelry, and was wearing slim-cut jeans, European-style dress shoes, and a deep V-neck t-shirt with Mick Jagger on the front. Brock officially lost his title as The Coolest Math Major Ever.
Our conversation began with a quip about how huge the portions at Filomena were, and evolved into an hour-long conversation about politics, economics, religion, and life in general. Paul was extremely left-wing and outspoken--such a refreshing personality to talk to! Yseult was a little more demure, but no less interesting.
Near the end of our conversation, our waiter approached our table. "Joanna called," he said. "She asked me if the couple she spoke to earlier was still at the restaurant, and that if they were, she insists that they try her tiramisu. On the house."
As you might expect, the tiramisu was exceptional. A thick velvety cream, flavored in the Italian tradition with mascarpone cheese and espresso, generously slathered between layers of lady fingers. We wouldn't normally order tiramisu because of the espresso (Mormons don't drink coffee), but we thought it would be extremely rude to send back a gifted dessert only because it contained a trace amount of coffee. Especially since our waiter was literally standing over us waiting to see our reactions as we ate (presumably, so he could report back to Joanna).
And so ended out last evening in DC. We exchanged contact information with Yseult and Paul--hopefully our paths will cross again in Dublin :) Although kayaking, Sprinkles, and Italian food were high points, what made the night were the people. Isn't that such a testament to how life is? Your days may be fun because of the things you do, but they will be meaningful because of the people in it.
As I look back on my time in DC, I realize how true that's been. The best part of my internship wasn't the actual work, but the people I worked with. In church, at the Barlow Center, anywhere--people gave depth to my summer and to my life. This world is filled with beautiful souls, and I feel privileged to have spent a summer meeting so many of them.

Horsetooth

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Perfect

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We woke up late. Got a little work done. Made ham and cheese paninis for lunch with the family. Lemonade popsicles. Packed up the Excursion and drove to the other side of town. Hiked. Swam. Laughed. Napped. Burgers on the grill. Movie.

Later that night, Brock and I were sitting out on my family's deck watching the stars flickering over the valley. "There's this great line from War and Peace," he said, "where Tolstoy describes the stars as whispering to each other."

He paused for a moment. "This really has been the perfect day."

HOME.

20110807

Things That Have Made Me Happy in the Past Twelve Hours

  • NOT SLEEPING ON A MURPHY BED.
  • MY DOGGIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Seeing the beautiful addition to the Cathy Fromme trail that was completed right below my house! I can't wait to run it.
  • Fresh air.
  • Birds chirping.
  • Stars.
  • Crickets.
  • The fact that my little brothers camped in the backyard last night.
  • Freshly mowed grass.
  • NO HUMIDITY.
  • No sirens.
  • No drunk frat boys cursing/fighting outside our window.
  • No honking horns.
  • The foothills.
  • The prospect of going boating this week on Horsetooth Reservoir.
  • The prospect of going tubing up Poudre Canyon.
  • The prospect of camping and climbing Mt. Elbert next week.
  • The prospect of going to New West Fest next week.
  • The prospect of going down to Boulder/Denver to shop with my sister.
  • The prospect of hiking in Rocky Mountain National Park.
  • The prospect of eating at that new brunch place that I've been wanting to try (Snooze).
  • The prospect of helping Brock build a chicken coop for my mom.

***

Summer in DC was great, but there is nothing like summer in Colorado.


I Don't Know What This Means

20110802

Email from my Washington Seminar professor:

For Friday's class: We will role play thrashing out the debt crises. We can have some fun with this. So I need nominees to play the roles listed below. The rest of you will be randomly assigned to advise one of the main roles, so you will need to keep up on what is going on.
Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid
Senate Minority Leader Mitch McConnell
Speaker Boehner
House Majority Whip Eric Cantor
House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi (a.k.a. Kristi Boyce)
President Obama
Senator Mike Lee or Orrin Hatch

WHY am I the only person assigned a name and WHY is that name NANCY PELOSI?????

And WHY DO I KIND OF LIKE THIS????

DC's got me drunk on power and I'm not even in office yet.



A Civil Exchange

20110801

Indiscriminate yelling

"Okay, ma'am. I'll relay that to the Congressman."

"OH I'M NOT DONE TALKING TO YOU, MISSY."

More indiscriminate yelling. The funny thing is that she and the Congressman actually AGREE on the issue she's upset over, but she doesn't even know it. I try telling her this.

"Ma'am?"

Yelling.

"Ma'am?"

More yelling.

"Ma'am?"

"STOP INTERRUPTING ME, YOU RUDE GIRL!!"

At this point in the "conversation," I hang up abruptly. Probably shouldn't've, but I am a human being and nobody talks to me like that. She calls back thirty seconds later and speaks with my supervisor.

Supervisor: "Hey Kristi, it was that woman again. She recorded your conversation and is submitting it to MSNBC and the Huffington Post. She said to--quote-- 'get ready to be famous.'"

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It's been a week since then. Why hasn't anybody called?????? :( :( :( :(


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